Going through a divorce is hard enough. But if your lifestyle in marriage was front and center on social media, it can bring extra stress. Maybe you posted about weekend getaways, designer bags or fancy dinners. Now that your life is changing, you may wonder if you are still expected to live up to that image.
Social media has a way of making things look picture-perfect. But behind the filters and captions, real-life finances tell a different story. During a divorce, your online life can even become part of the discussion, especially if one spouse supports a certain lifestyle.
Keeping up is costly
You may have enjoyed a certain level of comfort during your marriage. When divorce happens, it is natural to want to keep those comforts. However, it is important to separate what you need from what you posted.
These are a few tips to help you adjust without losing yourself:
- List your real expenses: Start with the basics—housing, food, insurance. Then, look at the extras and consider if they are realistic.
- Avoid posting during your divorce: Even simple posts can be taken out of context. It is better to stay private until things are settled.
- Adjust slowly: You do not have to change everything overnight. Small steps like cutting back on shopping or travel can help you feel more in control.
- Focus on what really matters: Time with your kids, peace of mind and financial stability are more valuable than any Instagram photo.
Divorce does not mean you lose your identity. Before making big financial decisions, consider seeking legal support. It can help protect your future and guide you through the lifestyle changes that come with divorce.